Kaitlyn man does she have her own personality she is very outgoing and can get along with anyone she is bossy to Kayd to much though but Kayd just takes it and follows her. That is something we are trying to change so Kayd can become his own person. Kaitlyn listens ok she to has her attitude and fits she is getting better though. I hope it is just the ages 3-4 so we still can have hope Kayd will snap out of it cause man Kaitlyn use to be uncontrollable too just like Kayd is now. Both of them are helpers though.